- Keep yourself safe from self-harm
Now Click No. 2
Whether you have just started harming or have been for a while, try some of the techniques in our ACT section to make change.
Try and think about what your self-harm is expressing.
- If it’s COMFORTING see if you can do alternative comforting actions instead – for example, have a bath, cuddle someone or something, do something relaxing, listen to some music you like.
- If it RELEASES FEELINGS, try some other outlets of feeling release instead – for example, talk to someone, exercise, write down how you feel, draw your emotion.
- If it RELEASES TENSION, try another way to release tension instead – for example listen to some very loud music, rip some paper, ‘ping’ a rubber band on your wrist. PRACTICE for at least 5 minutes.
- DISTRACT yourself from the temptation to self-harm. Do something – go for a walk, give yourself something difficult to do. Sit it out – the urge will pass.
Now Click No. 3
Calm Harm App
Now Click No. 4
- Now you’ve made a difference work on your strategy to maintain this over the long term. Remember long term could be a day for some, a week for others and months for others. No one gets it right immediately. Keep trying – you will get there either with your own inner strength or with the help of others. There is help available.
Try it. Give yourself a seven day period to put into action. If you have success, try another seven days. Build up to 30 days.